Friday, May 22, 2009

Foto Finish Friday

Then: K by the maple 6/13/08
Now: K by the maple 5/19/09

Friday, May 15, 2009

Happy Mail


We got a big surprise in the mail a few days ago! A package from K's foster Mom! He was so excited to open it! When it came, the conversation between K and I went something like this:
Me: "K, this package is from Korea. Who else is from Korea?"
K: "ME!!"
Me: "Then who do you think this package is for??"
K: "ME!!"
OK, I'm sure he only got those questions right because the answer was him, but it still made me wonder if some of what we tell him about his story is already sinking in. It was pure torture for us to wait until Joe got home from work to open it, but we did. And it was worth the wait! K's foster Mom is such a sweet and thoughtful lady. I really hope we get to meet her someday. She sent: an adorable outfit for K (see photo), a beautiful coffee set for Joe and I, a stack of baby pictures (including what may possibly be the youngest photo we have of him yet), some tulip bulbs from her garden (the same tulips which were in a handful of pictures with K in photos she had previously sent us...my sentimental sappy side is sooo lovin' those), and a wonderful note. The love they did and do feel for our son is so apparent, and we are all so thankful that we've been able to maintain contact.
K in his Korea threads...
Oh, and I have to mention that somehow she got these pants right on the money, he very well may live in them this summer. They're super lightweight, stretchy waisted "short pants", even though they don't really look like it in this pic. I realized that if you cinch the elastic at the bottom of the legs, they ride up a little and are shorter, I'm sure this is the way they're meant to be worn.

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

it's good to know...

That I am *officially* 100% free and clear of my military obligation! OK, for most of you this is probably old news, since I have been out for over 6 years. However, I never received my discharge orders so I couldn't "prove" it. You might be wondering why I didn't inquire with them sooner...hmm...let me think; Iraq war, Afghanistan, I can't prove I'm discharged... really, am I going to bring my name up in the midst of all those circumstances?? I think not! But, I decided it was finally time, and requested my military records just over a week ago and got them in the mail on Monday (honestly, the fastest I've ever seen the military move...). And yes, indeed, it says in black and white, "Status at separation: honorable"!! (And yes, they had sent them to me...at an address I hadn't lived at in a very long time)

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Journey of a Mother

I am K's third mother. His first mother, of course, his birth mother. His second mother, his foster mother. His third mother, Me, his FOREVER mother. His other two mothers were most definitely in my thoughts and prayers on this Day for Mother's.

Mother's Day was not always a happy day for me. In fact, for many years it was one of the worst days of the year. I dreaded it, and I grieved every year it came around and I still had no child in my arms. The feelings I felt were some of the loneliest in the world; not only did I not have my child in my arms, but few people knew or realized my suffering and I knew only a few other people who were going through the same things. It's such a lonely road, made even more so by the fact that even our husbands don't know what we're really going through, although it pains them just as much.

This weekend I had a great time celebrating my motherhood with our families. As much as I felt it was a celebration of my motherhood, I also felt it was a celebration of my CHILD, who we truly feel is our special gift from God. Today, as everyday, I cherished the hugs and kisses from my little boy. It still amazes me that even after all this time, I still get teary eyed with his whole body hugs and "I love you Mommy".  I hope I never lose that feeling.


Friday, May 8, 2009

Foto Finish Friday

After my last post I feel I owe you all a bit of silliness. Well, our boy is never short on that! This week was kind of a slow in the picture department (who wants to see pictures of crying and screaming, anyways?). Since it's not from this week, I thought I'd spice it up a bit by making it an action shot (ie, video). Enjoy a few moments of our silly boy!


He had been doing this crazy dance on his toy box, which I of course missed most of since I had to run and get the camera. Then he decides to shift to super hero mode (in case any of you need some translation).

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

Testing...one...two...

Yes, K, we still love you, even though we've about had it....

This week surely has been one for the record books. Can anyone say "testing twos"?? (Gotta give credit for that one to my blogger buddy, Mara) 
Oh...my...goodness, and just when we thought we had the world's sweetest child, too.

Not sure what's been going on in that little head of his, but he sure is trying to make sure we're in this for the long haul. Probably the biggest disappointment of the week has been his regression on his potty training. Honestly, it's like he lost over a month worth of training over the course of a few days. It started the end of last week, and went down hill all weekend until we finally put him in diapers on Sunday afternoon. He would refuse to sit on the potty and actually asked to wear a diaper. I wasn't in the mood for fighting, so that's what we did... put a diaper on him. Monday he was in daycare and it wasn't much better. He went through all 3 pairs of pants I sent with him and he gave his care provider flack when she asked him to go. When we got home in the evening, he had 2 accidents in less than 40 minutes... He was also not a very nice boy on Monday and had several time outs at daycare for hitting other kids. 
Yesterday was slightly better, but he still went through all the clothes I sent with him. His day care provider had the brilliant idea of making him take off his wet clothes, put them in the dirty bag and put on his clean clothes (all by himself) when he had accidents. She said this continued all morning, but after 11am yesterday he stayed dry the rest of the day! And today... so far, so good. :-) And yea, we're adopting that method for home as well. He was also had a much better attitude yesterday and didn't hit anyone. 

OH, and the other news...he can open his bedroom door.  So:
**open door + big boy bed = little boy who doesn't want to stay in his room at bedtime**
Monday he tested this on us as well, and finally stayed in bed after about the 6th time of being taken back to bed. Hopefully this is improving as well, last night he only got up once. Right now he's down for nap and he didn't come out at all. 
It's pretty strange to just see him appear when he's done sleeping. 

K and I have done lots of praying together this week...praying for Mommy to have patience and for K to be able to make good choices and obey his parents. Speaking of prayer, if you're so inclined, please send one up for my Grandma. She's 97 and still lives independently. She's currently in the hospital for pneumonia and will not be able to return home to the level of independence she knows and loves. Please keep her and my parents in your prayers as they make choices on her care needs and living situation. Thanks.

So, there you go, our exciting week. Sorry if it's a bit of a rant, but real life isn't always pretty. Can't be all sunshine and smiles, you know. ;-)

Saturday, May 2, 2009

Handwashing 101...


First, turn on the water ...
notice the fine balancing skills this requires.
Next, plenty of soap...
Stop to say "Cheese"!
Then, rinse clean
Finally, quick dry with the towel...
so quick, in fact, I could barely get a picture of it!
And he couldn't be happier that there is now one more thing he can do (almost) entirely on his "own". :-)

Friday, May 1, 2009

Foto Finish Friday

Enjoying his very own bowl of yummy locally made strawberry ice cream! It was the second time ever of getting his "own" treat and boy was he feeling like something special! Oh, and sporting his new favorite T-shirt, his "basketball shirt" from Grandma Nancy. He's insisted on wearing it the past two days, luckily I had to do laundry last night... it was a bad potty day at day care yesterday :-(.

Friday, April 24, 2009

New bed!!

If you asked K the most exciting thing that happened this week, you would likely hear "New bed!!" Yes, we took the plunge into the world of free reign sleeping. He's actually doing very well with it. Joe put it up while we were at work/daycare on Monday and when we came home, K went into his room and noticed right away what was different, "New bed!!". Here's his first romp in it:
He's stayed in it all night, every night since Monday (and of course naps, too). He's started getting out after we put him down, but so far he's only gotten out to get more books or animals to sleep with and gone right back to bed, so I guess we can allow that. I tell you, this little guy is just growing up way too fast!
We knew there would be two big, major milestones this year: potty training and a big boy bed. Well, here we are at 26 months old and he's already conquered both. Wonder what will happen the rest of the year?? I can't wait to see!
A little update on the potty training; he's continuing to do great for his age! He's telling us more and more when he needs to go and is having more dry days at daycare. This week he still went through a pair of clothes each day, but the reasons were excusable in my book. One day he had an accident during his nap (which he no longer wears a diaper for), one day he threw up in the car on his way there (nothing major...no more vomit or other ill symptoms), and yesterday he tried to take himself to the potty and it got a little messy. :-) 
I am one proud Momma!!

Foto Finish Friday

We've been having great weather pretty much all week. Last Saturday we got some yard work done, and K helped me plant some flowers in my pots. He had most fun watering them, though. Or, should I say watering everything??

Saturday, April 18, 2009

Easter Weekend Review

We had a wonderful, fun filled Easter weekend. K got to participate in 4 egg hunts, here are pictures from 3 of them. 

Indulging in his second piece of chocolate ever, 
and probably his last for a while...
after a couple tastes last weekend, we're pretty sure he's allergic.
Or at least very senstitive to it.
"I know there's an egg around here somewhere"

The Loot
The C cousin line-up, ready to hunt!

Friday, April 17, 2009

Foto Finish Friday

OK, ya'll get 2 Friday fotos this week. I threw the first one in just 'cause his little face is so adorable. The real point of the photo is how independent he's becoming. The phrase of the week has been "I do it". I was getting him ready to go out for a jog earlier this week, and he started adding layers, insisting to wear his snow pants over his regular pants, his scarf and his "skateboard shirt" (another new development, he's started calling anything with a hood a skateboard shirt...not sure where that's coming from).
And here's the photo where you can see better what he wanted to wear. It was kinda chilly out so I didn't really mind the addition of the snow pants. :-)

Friday, April 10, 2009

Foto Finish Friday

Putting on his cheesiest smile!

Wednesday, April 8, 2009

it's the little things

Like...

Squeals of delight while playing with Daddy
Total relaxation in my arms
Running up to me and bear hugging my leg
Grabbing my hand and saying "My Mommy"
Random hugs and kisses
Hearing "O-tay Mommy"
Arms and legs wrapped around us when in need of comfort
Climbing into my lap with a book or toy
Calling for me when he needs help

We've worked so hard and come so far, and every second was worth it!

Friday, April 3, 2009

Foto Finish Friday

K wearing his Thomas vest that Grandma Nancy made for him (she also made a matching hat, but of course he wouldn't keep it on for the picture) and Willie trying to get in on the action. What you can't see: he's also wearing a Thomas T-shirt and Thomas underwear. This boy is choo-choo crazy!

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

New Year's Resolution

Yes, I know it's April 1st.
No, this is not a joke.

The truth is, I'm not big on New Year's resolutions. I guess I figure, if something is that wrong with my life, why wait until Jan 1 to fix it? That being said, I tend to be more of a New Year's goal setter. This year, I made a goal to finish a long-standing project by the end of this year.

For those of you who have been in this for the long haul, you probably can guess what I'm talking about. Way back in December of 2006, we sent/gave letters to all our friends and family, asking them to contribute a quilt square to our Good Wishes Quilt for our future child. Well, the future is here, but the quilt is not. Over the following months we received lots and lots of fabric squares with wishes for our child. I started cutting the squares and sewing them together in the fall of 2007. Then something happened... said child came home and production ground to a halt. More important things took over and the quilt was not worked on for many, many months. Not that I'm making excuses, but part of my dilemma has been that my "sewing" room is across the hall from K's room. Given his age, pretty much the only time I have to work on it is while he's sleeping, but you can see, I don't want to make all the sewing machine racket while he's sleeping. So, working on it entails moving my entire sewing set-up into our bedroom (which is the furthest room from his in our cozy little home), not too conducive to quick set-up sewing sessions. I also spend way too much of his sleeping time on the computer, blogging, social networking, etc. 

And yes... I see the irony of this post.

I just wanted to take a few minutes of my precious sewing time to let you all know my goal for this year, so I have more people to be accountable to for accomplishing my 2009 goal.

Thanks for listening...off to sew!

Basketball and other big boy stuff

It's only Wednesday and we've already had a really big week! Honestly, it seems like K is maturing by months over the course of days! Here's the run down:

On Sunday he did great playing basketball with Daddy. He was making baskets like nobody's business, I even managed to get a few on video! :-) (OK, you gotta watch close at the very beginning, that's when all the action happens) 


On Monday he chose to leave his beloved Kim Chee in the car when he was dropped off at daycare. Joe confirmed with him multiple times and he understood what he was doing. He did great all day and only asked for him once, but was quickly comforted by another snuggie at daycare. He also went #2 in the potty for the first time at daycare on Monday.

On Tuesday he had his first full day of no #1 accidents at daycare (thus, the first time in 3 weeks that I didn't have dirty pants to clean that night...nice). He also behaved wonderfully at a friend's birthday party that evening, after we'd all had a long day at work/ daycare. He was so excited for this party, we talked about it over the weekend and he wanted to go...at that very moment! When I picked him up and reminded him it was time for the party he literally started jumping up and down with excitement, yelling "Jacob party, Jacob party!!!"

I'm happy to be at home with him today and can't wait to see what lies ahead for us! :-)

(By the way...he hasn't had any accidents with us for well over a week and is staying dry at naps!)

Friday, March 27, 2009

Foto Finish Friday


My big boy. He is growing up way too fast! Here he is, eating breakfast sitting on the bar stool, wearing big boy pj's (ie. two piece) and big boy underwear eating raisin bran of all things.  I remember watching him on this morning and wondering what happened to our little baby...

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

The Guest House

We just got back from 2 days at the coast...2 stormy, windy, cold days. We stayed at one of my favorite places, a guest house owned by a friend. We've stayed there several times before, but this was K's first experience there. This house is great, fully stocked with amenities of home. K found the toys in the play room within 30 seconds of entering the house and didn't come out for nearly a half hour!  When we got there, the weather was so-so. Partly sunny, but still pretty cold and windy. We made our way down to the beach and played for a bit until our fingers started going numb. This is what the sky looked like then. 
After we returned to the house, the clouds started rolling in, but that didn't stop K from trying to spot a whale (or anything). He found the binoculars and was in love. 
I don't know why I love this house so much, it's just so comfortable. I could lounge around it all day (and I have on previous trips when we weren't also trying to entertain a 2 yr old!). This is one of the best places to sit in the house, right in front of the picture window which looks out to the ocean. 
And this is what you see. I never tire of this view:
Shortly after the rain came, and it didn't really stop through the whole next day. Hence, we mostly just stayed in our cozy little home by the sea, playing games and watching movies. We did make a trip into Newport for a little sight-seeing and lunch. 
On the day we left, it was fairly nice in the morning. The wind died down for a while and the sun came out, it was actually pleasant. We hit the beach on last time and had a nice walk, until the clouds started rolling back in and we got cold...

When we got home, it was still early in the day and very nice out so we went to the park. We realized that K played in the sand more at the park that day than he did during our 2 days at the coast. :-)

Saturday, March 21, 2009

He's doing WHAT?!?!

The big news...dare I say it?? At just over 25 months old, our brilliant little boy is nearly potty trained! We honestly had no plan to address this until at least this summer, but he had other plans! He's been wearing big boy undies around the house for several months now, and they were usually wet within about 20 minutes. Shortly after his birthday, something changed... first he kept them dry for 30 minutes, then 45, then a whole hour! We continued doing this on a sporadic, only at home type basis until a couple weeks ago. We'd just been hanging at home most of the weekend, and he had done amazingly well in his underwear (or uh-wareh, as he calls it), so we decided to take a risk...running errands with no diaper and he did great! We decided to just go for it and he has embraced the concept! He is improving daily, and aside from a couple times when we just couldn't get his clothes off fast enough, he's only had one accident at home in the past week. His daycare provider is on board as well, although he's having a little harder time at her house. This week though, he only had one accident per day there (which means 3 total) and I think that's wonderful! Most days, his diaper after nap is dry so I'm sure it's only a matter of time until he's out of his nap diaper. We are just so amazed (and relieved) this has happened so quickly (and easily) and he is doing so well with it, but also a little sad that our baby is really growing up (but not so sad about not changing poopy diapers). I think he looks absolutely adorable in his little Elmo or Thomas the Tank Engine underwear and would love to plaster pictures of them all over this page, but I will restrain myself...I would not want pictures of me in my undies on the internet. 

Friday, March 20, 2009

Foto Finish Friday

In case you haven't noticed, I've neglected these posts (again) over the past few weeks. So, here a double doosey one to make up for it. Here's a few pics from our trip to the zoo last weekend. It was cold and wet, but still fun. And thanks again to Grandma & Grandpa C for the zoo membership! 

Watching polar bear play

Inside the "ice cave"

Trying to get picture lined up next to the bears,
little boy running away...

Finally got it (sort of), thanks to Grandpa M!

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

more than just clothes

Spring is approaching, and my baby is growing...right out of all his clothes! I loved his fall/winter wardrobe, and am having a harder time than I expected letting it go. To me, these are more than just clothes. Almost all of these clothes were given to us as shower gifts, and I hate to see them go. These are the clothes that I looked at day after day, folded and refolded until they were just right, passing those long 4 1/2 months waiting to meet our sweet boy. I tried to imagine what he would look like in them, what we would do together in them and what parenthood would be like in general. Before he came home, it was hard to believe that my son would really be wearing them. Our journey was a long and bumpy one and it was hard to fathom that we would be parents until he was in our arms. That was not even a year and a half ago, and here we are "on the other side", outgrowing some of the first gifts we were given for him. Go ahead, call me a sentimental sap... that's just what I am. 

Along the lines of clothes, I stripped his dresser of all his onesies...won't be able to use those any more!  Oh, by the way, could anyone use some brand new short sleeve 24 month size onesies (some T-shirt, some polo style), I just found a slew of them he won't be able to wear this Spring. More on that later.

Sunday, March 15, 2009

"How old is your son?"

Such a simple question...

We were at the park last Friday, swinging next to a cute little baby girl. One of the ladies with the little girl asked me, "How old is your son?". I answered, not thinking much of it. As I thought about it more and more, I realized this was probably the first time that a total stranger has referred to K as my son before asking me for sure if he was my son.  I really appreciated this small gesture from a total stranger...

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Bowling Craze

We've got a bit of a bowling craze going on at our house right now. For the past few months, K has been wild about bowling! I think it started when we got our Wii, and he loves to "play" bowling on that. Then, we started making bowling pins out of his megablocks and knocking them over with his balls. Then, we found a computer bowling game that he likes to "play". We decided it was time for him to experience the real thing. So, last Sunday, we took him bowling for the first time! It was great! Of course, it was a typical activity with a 2 yr old...lots of running after him and trying to keep him next to us, lots of explaining about how we take turns, and a few little yelps of displeasure from all of us. When we walked into the bowling alley, he was soooo excited, it was all we could do to keep him from running down to grab all the bowling pins. I was so amazed that he could lift the 6lb ball all by himself, although walking with it and rolling it was another story. They only had to come rescue his ball twice, when it stopped completely on it's way down the chute. It's a little embarrassing to admit that he actually got the best score out of the three of us. Although, he did get to have his bumpers up so that may have helped him a little. ;-)

Of course, he only wanted the balls that weren't his.
I made a deal with him...if he could lift it, he could use it.

Please pardon the posterior view, this was the best "action shot" we got!

And this is pretty much what we did the whole time...
All in all, a good afternoon of family fun!

Thursday, March 5, 2009

We love Kim Chee!

Anyone who knows us IRL, knows that when K arrived from Korea he brought with him a very special dog. We think he has had this dog since he was about 2 weeks old. We have many pictures from his time in Korea, and the dog is never far from him. Thank goodness the nice Korean woman who came off his plane told us about the dog in his travel bag. When he started fussing just minutes after he was in our arms, we gave him his dog and it was like magic. Suddenly, this new strange place wasn't so strange anymore. We knew we had gained another (unexpected) family member. We instantly named him Kim Chee. Honestly, it was the first word that popped into our heads, so that became his name. We truly believe Kim Chee has helped K through his adjustment in unimaginable ways. Those first days were tough, and I actually had moments that I was angry at this stuffed animal because my son loved it more than he loved (or even liked) me. I can probably count on my fingers the number of times we've left our house over the past 15 months without Kim Chee. He comes everywhere with us. I have done several surgical procedures on this poor puppy, he's (literally) being loved to death! This week we had the scariest incident yet, when K got up one morning, there was stuffing on his floor. From where? Guess! Yes, poor Kim Chee somehow acquired a slit in his neck during the night. Just our luck, it was a day we were both working so for the first time K went to daycare without his most favorite stuffy ever. (Luckily, we have Rover, his #2 dog he could take) Joe said he only screamed half way there and was pretty OK with the situation when they arrived, he even told his day care provider: "Chin Chee...owiee".  And don't worry, Kim Chee has made a full recovery from the surgery I performed that evening.
When K first arrived, and we learned how attached he was to Kim Chee, we really realized how much his foster mom loved him, and how well she prepared a 10 month old for the huge change he was about to go through. In our eyes, she is simply brilliant for attaching him to this dog and sending it home with him. 
As K is getting older, more secure, more confident and more independent he's needing his dog less and less. There have been days recently when Kim Chee hasn't even left the crib between K's sleeping times. He's learning to leave him in the car when we go places, or if we happen to forget him at home that Willie will take good care of Kim Chee and he will be there when we return. (Which, by the way, could be a whole no
ther post: how Willie somehow has known from the start not to mess with this particular stuffy.) Now we're just hoping and praying that he will outgrow needing to take the dog everywhere before he falls apart!

K and Kim Chee reading in the rocking chair
3/4/09

Saturday, February 28, 2009

Run

by Ann Patchett

I just finished reading this book and I thought it was great. I'm not a big fan of reading books more than once, but I would definitely consider reading this one again in the future. The subject matter was a bit heavy, but kept me going since it was one close to my heart...adoption. I should say, the story was based around bio brothers who had been adopted (transracially) when they were very young. So many other themes echoed through the book: religion, relationships, life-long deception... several different story lines all webbed together very understandably. This was a book that, at a few points, I could literally not put down. In fact, I read about 100 pages over the few days we were away from K on our trip to Las Vegas. This book was so full of surprises, by the end I could not even imagine what might be coming next. Two big thumbs up from me! :-)

Friday, February 27, 2009

Foto Finish Friday

Fun with soap. Last weekend I was trying to clean the bathroom, so I let K "help". He had fun for several minutes getting good and clean. :-)
Can you see his little face? 
He's trying so hard to get the soap out...

Saturday, February 21, 2009

breaking new ground

In the fall of 1998, a few short months after we were married, Joe and I attended a public open house for Lane Transit District, where they were showing the community their plans to build one of the country's first bus rapid transit systems. At that point, Joe was nearly 2 years from completing his degree, but he was very excited about this project and even said how he would love to work on it someday.

10 years later...
The past week LTD broke ground on their second phase of EmX (M-X), and guess who is the project manager...that's right, my hubby!  He began his internship with LTD in 1999, and was hired as a planning technician after he graduated.  Since then, he has worked very hard on many projects (including the first phase of EmX) and moved his way up through the ranks.  The timeline for this project has been set for some time, but construction is starting at a time when it's really needed, it will generate hundreds of jobs in our community. 
Here are some pictures from the ground breaking ceremony...

It was a packed "house"
EmX bus and future stop, in front of the new hospital
My Boys
Kai took full advantage of his Daddy's relationship with the construction guys
and scored himself a sit on the backhoe

Friday, February 20, 2009

Foto Finish Friday

Strikin' a pose
Seriously, have you seen a more adorable child?
And, he's got a personality too!

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Why???

The why's have begun! Starting the day he turned 2, this has been the response K gives us to everything we say! I honestly thought we had a few more years (or at least months) until all the questioning began... apparently not. 

Saturday, February 14, 2009

Kai turns 2!!

Let me tell you, we have celebrated this little boy's birthday in style this year! 
Last Saturday we had his party, where we had close to 25 of our favorite people come and celebrate with us. Of course the theme was Thomas, and K had the time of his life. That whole day, as we were getting ready for it, he walked around the house saying, "My party, my party, my party!" He handled himself fantastically for only having a one hour nap, and I think everyone had a great time. Luckily, it wasn't raining, so after the main festivities were over we let the 11 kids who were in attendance go outside to play. It was so fun to have all those kids running around our backyard, playing basketball and squealing with delight! 
His actual B-day was Thursday, which he got to spend at daycare. I won't go into the Mommy guilt I had for having to send him there on his birthday, but he had a wonderful time. They were also having their Valentine's party that day, so along with the cupcakes I sent for him to share with his friends, it turned into quite the celebration. Of course, he thought it was all "My party, my party, my party".  His care provider told me that when they were all singing Happy Birthday to him, he was just beaming and clapping his hands!
I was able to get off work early on Thurs., so I picked him up and we went home to relax for a little while. Later, we met Joe at Red Robin for his birthday dinner. It was his first Red Robin experience, and he thought it was just great. He loved looking around at everything, but wasn't sure what to think when the big red bird started walking around the place. After dinner we went home and he opened a few gifts from us. Today the festivities finally concluded when we gave him our "big gift", a tricycle! We didn't want to give it to him right before bedtime expecting him to go to sleep right away, so we waited a few days until he could play with it. He loves it!
The other aspect of his birthday which will always be on our minds, is thoughts of his birthmother on this special day. We hope and pray that above all, she has peace in her heart that she made the right decision and that she could know how much we love him. 

Please enjoy the video montage below, the video footage right at the end shows you a very tired, very wired little birthday boy! 

Friday, February 13, 2009

Foto Finish Friday

Yesterday at daycare they had their Valentine's party. See the little bucket K is putting the pencil into? It's filled with his Valentine goodies from all his friends. After we got home yesterday, he carried that bucket around for nearly an hour. Taking everything out, putting it all back in, inspecting everything intently. It was so adorable. He even wanted to make a fort to hide in and keep it safe from Willie. It was all too cute!

Thursday, February 12, 2009

So much excitement...

So little time to blog about it. 

We've had lots of fun stuff going on this week, but the details will have to wait another day or so. I just don't have it in me right now. The biggest news, of course, today is K's 2nd Birthday!! He had a great day, and I promise I'll write all about it soon... very soon.

Saturday, February 7, 2009

Foto Finish Friday

OK, OK, I know it's not Friday, and I've missed the mark again.  Better late than never, right? We're in the midst of a busy week for us, and I just couldn't get to it yesterday. 

He made this drill all by himself this week. I left him for a few minutes with his blocks and he thought this up. :-) Check back soon for details on some of what's been keeping us so busy...it has to do with someone's birthday coming up!

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

reading

One of my favorite past-times is reading. Unfortunately, the only time I to read is right before bed. I can get through a few pages before I start falling asleep. Thus, it takes forever for me to read a book. Most of my reading material comes from my Mother-in-Law, who is an avid reader and has great taste in books. Most of the books I own were gifts from her, and the other books I read I borrow from her. I call her my library. :-)
I've added a book shelf to my sidebar so you can see what I'm reading or have read. The first book will always be what I'm currently reading, the rest are books I've read and have loved. I've also added some of Kai's favorite books as well. He gets his love of books from me, I guess. ;-)
If I've read something particularly moving or thought provoking, I just may blog a book review.

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